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Purple reigns for autumn

dresses with sleeves, berry tones for autumn/winter

At last, a colour palette that Cyndy and I can both wear - the berry shades, including purple, mauve, aubergine and burgundy.

Two winters ago it was all about my palette - cloudy grey, mushroom, taupe, gun-metal and, of course, black. Then summer 2012 was in-your-face orange, Cyndy's signature colour; definitely not one for me. 

So the best news about this season's palette of beautiful berries and purples is that there is a shade to suit and flatter every skin tone and hair colour. And don't underestimate the "flatter" - you don't have to be Elizabeth Taylor, with violet eyes, to benefit from the glow that the right shade or puple or burgundy can bestow. But the emphasis is the right shade, which is why we have lots of variations on purple and burgundy for you.

For the "brights", there is purple, violet or heliotrope; for those wanting a warmer, more mellow hue, there is mulberry, plum, burgundy and aubergine while for those wanting a mid-tone, there are variants on all of the above, plus amethyst and bruised plum. And for those who prefer a paler, cooler tone there is mauve, lilac, lavender and amethyst, as well as the bolder tones woven into tweed, which lowers the vibrancy. 

We have found you the best dresses - including lots of dresses with sleeves - coats and jackets in all your favourite berry colours and from your favourite labels, including Diane von Furstenberg, DKNY, LK Bennett and Orla Kiely.

We also know that, for some, an entire garment in purple or burgundy may feel too much, so we have stunning bags, shoes, boots, belts and even jewellery so you can add the season's key shade as an accent colour to the neutrals in your wardrobe.

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Chesca ramps up the glamour for curvy girls

plus size clothes, plus size clothing, dresses with sleevesChesca's new autumn collection has really taken the plus-size clothing label in a new fashion-forward direction. Running alongside their classic dresses, there are gorgeous, shapely dresses designed to really show off and flatter curves.

We particularly love the leopard print wrap dress (above, £265) and we think the black dress banded with gently gleaming black sequin inserts (centre, £255) will be a knock-out for the party season. And for those who aren't bothered about sleeves, we think the black dress with the velvet bodice and velvet inserts (£235) will be a wow at Christmas drinks and New Year's Eve.

And for the really big, glammy events this season, we love their sleek, long gown with its cleverly - and flatteringly - draped shawl collar, at £225. 

For less formal occasions, they have jersey dresses in flattering wrap and cross-over styles, with knot front or draping, from £70.

They also have the stylish coats you will want to get your hands on the moment the temperatures dip, including a fabulous, black shearling number at £120, and the beautiful cocoon coat (below) at £265.

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Our Object of Desire is a bag in burgundy, the season's hot colour

stylish bagsThis weekend's Object of Desire is this perfect hobo bag from Donna Karan's diffusion collection, DKNY. A perfect balance between slouchy and structured, it is in the season's hottest colour, burgundy. With this vintage leather baby, and you can demonstrate your trend credentials without ever purchasing another item in the colour (though that would be a pity, since it is such a gorgeously flattering colour).

In butter-soft leather with that bold, gold-tone clasp, this is a bag to take you to work, to wear at weekends or simply the perfect everyday bag. The 9-inch handles mean you can wear it in the crook of your arm, fashionista style, or on your shoulder, and  it has three interior compartments to keep your stuff organized.

While you can buy this bag in the UK in tan, it is only available in perfectly on-trend burgundy at Macy's. But with their flat-rate shipping fee of £10 on all purchases of over £99, this is is still great value at £268.64.

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Find the right bra from bra-fitter to The Queen and queen of bra-fitters

june kenton, rigby & peller, correct bra fittingRigby & Peller's June Kenton corsetiere to the Queen, queen of bra-fitters and the undisputed star turn of the first and second series of Gok Wan’s How to Look Good Naked, offers some advice on how to maximise assets, minimise bumps and bulges and how to ensure underpinnings always work for you

“The right bra in the correct fitting means your clothes look better and you feel better. If you are wearing the right garments underneath, your outer clothing fits and looks so much better," says June.

Explaining how they fit at Rigby & Peller, she says: "We never measure – you will not find a tape-measure in any Rigby & Peller shop. It is all done by sight and by trying on different bras to see what is good for a client because  a woman may need a 36C in one brand and a 34D in another.

She observes that we all change bra size throughout our lives – pregnancy, breast-feeding, the Pill, HRT, weight-gain or weight-loss, all have an impact, so it is important to be to recognise that  a bra size and cup-size can alter over the years.

"Because you were a 34B when you were 30, doesn’t mean you still are", she says.

June also points out that it is very difficult to measure yourself accurately: "You are moving to adjust the tape measure, you are not relaxed, and even if the tape measure tells you that you are 36ins round your torso, and a C cup, that still won’t necessarily mean you will buy a bra that really fits well, because you may be 36C in one brand, but 34D in another brand because bras vary in fit as much as clothing does."

If someone fits you, they can see what is going on at the back as well as at the front, she observes, adding that a bra that gives you proper support is "better for your health. A bra that doesn’t give you the right support and lets you bounce around will be bad for your back, bad for your neck, and bad for your confidence".

June also suggests that if you want to look really streamlined and hide bumps and bulges, wear a shapewear body – it holds everything in and gives a really sleek line, but, she adds, "don’t buy it too small; leave the fat where it is – don’t push it somewhere else!"

June’s rules

1. Always wear matching bra and briefs. It will make you feel better to know your underwear looks goodcorrect fitting bras, well-fitting bras, bra fitting

2.  Have different bras for different types of clothing: you need a smooth or T-shirt bra to wear under close-fitting clothes; a bra with pretty straps for strappy tops; a nude-tone bra  to wear under anything see-through – never white, cream or black.

3.  Never pull your bra straps up so high your breasts creep out at the bottom; the underwiring should rest against the chest wall, not against your breast.

4.  A bra should  fit comfortably around your torso – not so tight it gives you extra boobs, but not so loose it rides up

5.  Forget what it says on the label – if you need to go up a cup or bra size for a better fit, do so. You are the only one who has to know what the label says, and the right size will be so much more flattering.

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How to work autumn's print trend

dresses with sleeves, long-sleeve dresses, mature women's clothesAs someone who is strongly averse to prints and patterns, I'm approaching the new season with a high level of trepidation since print of all kinds, including flowers, fruit, foliage and bold digital patterns, continue as a key trend into Autumn 2012.

Which means we are all going to have to learn to love print or miss out on some of the most fabulous pieces for autumn, like the stunning trio of dresses, (above) by Vivienne Westwood, Paul Smith Black Label and Damsel in a Dress.

First print item on our hot list for autumn is a coat: the sublime black-and-cream jacquard coat by James Lakeland (left), which will stylish coats, clothes for mature womenbe a real statement piece once the temperature dips.

Another favourite is the blue, flower-print long-sleeve dress (below) by Erdem in an all-over blue flower print, which at £390, is a well-priced investment piece from the designer who is the godfather of print.

If one of the all-over prints feels a bit overwhelming, look for some of the clever placement prints, like those from James Lakeland and Damsel in a Dress, or the inventive graphic print from Zero + Maria Cornejo at Browns.

Alternatively, choose a more low-key print, like the Hermes-inspired chain print used by Equipment to give a new season's twist to its classic shirt, or animal and snake print, which have become classics, and allow you to display your print credentials without having to wear anything too dramatic.

And if you don't feel comfortable wearing print for a whole garment, there are brilliant print scarves, bags and shoes, including this exquisite belle epoque flower embellished pair from Nicholas Kirkwood at Browns, which are an obscenely pricey £850. On the other hand, that's quite a bargain for a piece of art..

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Our Object of Desire is this mouthwatering silk kaftan

stylish beachwear, dresses with sleevesIt is bank holiday weekend, which means it's nearly the end of August and therefore nearly the end of the traditional summer break, but for everyone who hasn't yet been away, or is planning any kind of sunshine break in, ooh, the next decade, you will find this weekend's Object of Desire irresistible.

In fact, so much in lust are we with the floaty, silk kaftans from Blue Mojito that we couldn't choose just a single Object of Desire. We have been forced to choose two - the jaw-droppingly gorgeous fuchsia one (left) and the printed one (below), in the same colour turquoise as the sea that surrounds our favourite Caribbean islands.

Both, as you can see from the pictures, are lavishly and beautifully embellished making them perfect for the most uber-chic beach resort or poolside. Needless to say, they would take you stylishly to a bar for a sundowner, and on to dinner. And, wear one over a nude-colour cami and skinny white jeans and you don't have to keep it for holiday - you could wear one out to dinner on a September evening.

The entire Blue Mojito collection is 100% pure silk, hand-painted and hand-embellished, which makes the price tags - £160 for the turquoise printed one and £165 for the fuchsia one - almost unbelievable. Blue Mojito is on the SoSensational Directory, where you can read more about them and their gorgeous products.

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Cinderella fashionista you can wear a designer frock to the ball

dresses with sleeves, posh frocks, party frocksSTOP PRESS: 15% OFF FOR SOSENSATIONAL (SEE BELOW)
For every woman who has lusted after a fabulous designer frock and then thought
, “noooh, it’s too expensive”, we have to tell you about SoSensational’s latest Directory entry, Wish Want Wear.

A high-end designer dress hire service, Wish Want Wear allows you to hire a designer dress straight from the catwalk for any occasion, from Sunday brunch, to a ball, a wedding, a red carpet event or perhaps just a special dinner party.

They have dresses from the hottest international designer collections including Just Cavalli, M Missoni, Halston Heritage, Red Valentino, Temperly, Tibi, Milly, Carlos Miele and many more – and you never have to pay the designer price tag. Hire prices start from £45 and go up to £315, with a huge selection available around £100 to £120.

If you bought a designer frock at - ooh, what shall we say - £900, you would have to wear it at least 18 times to get the same value (or nine times if you hired at £100). And not even Kate Middleton wears a posh frock that many times. Which, of course, is why all the cleverest fashionistas are now hiring when they need a totally fabulous, luxe dress...

And the very clever team at Wish Want Wear have thought the whole online hiring thing through really carefully, acknowledging that what could put some women off the idea of hiring is wondering whether a dress will fit well. In all their garment descriptions they are very clear about whether a dress is true to size, smaller or bigger, and you can have a back-up size absolutely free with every dress. So, if you are not quite sure whether you are a 10 or 12 in a particular dress, they will send you both and you can decide when you try on.

And ordering is simple, too: you can filter by designer, occasion, colour and lots more to find your perfect dress. And if you're in a rush, you can use the express rental option - you just select the dates you want to rent and your size and a collection of all the dresses that are available for your date in your size comes up.

And as well as the dream dress, you can hire the perfect accessories from a selection of fabulous hats and fascinators, bags and stunning jewellery to complete any outfit. And if you really want to impress, they have vintage Chanel bags to hire, too.

Take advantage of a special discount with SoSensational. There's 15% off orders with the code Sensational15, valid until September 5th

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Object of Desire is a fabulous coat from Shibumi

knee length coats, posh frocksCyndy and I are in lust with this weekend's Object of Desire, this stunning knee-length coat from Shibumi Coats, from the SoSensational Directory.

And because it is available in a huge number of colours and both embroidered and plain silk and printed cashmere, we could both have one in our colours and choice of pattern!

One of the things we love about this coat is its real versatility. In fact, Shibumi's ethos is to encourage people to wear beautiful fabrics all the time, and for all occasions; to be able to wear the same elaborate coat to a wedding and also very casually, with jeans. It all depends on how the coat or jacket is styled and accessorised.

Ruth, the clever and talented woman behind Shibumi, doesn't want customers to wear one of her beautiful coats "once for a grand occasion and then stick it in the back of the wardrobe where it becomes a special occasion garment".

"There is no point in spending money on a coat and wearing it only once," she says.

This knee-lengthsingle-breasted coat has a half-belt at the back, nice wide revers and vents, and available in silk or her beautiful, and warm, cashmere cloth. This coat is perfect for a wedding or a day at the races, worn over a pretty frock, with a stunning hat, or casually with skinny jeans and a simple tee.

Called Grace, this coat is £295 and is available in UK sizes 6 - 26, with a huge choice of fabrics to choose from, including embroidered silks, and Paris Boutique cashmeres.

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Barbie, you are helping to sexualise little girls

Do Barbies have a pernicious influence on how little girls dress? Are they more responsible for the sexualisation of little girls than high street retailers?

 

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Have you paid attention to what Barbie dolls look like lately?

No, me neither, until I saw several of them being played with by my adorable four-year-old granddaughter Sadie.

I concede that, even when my daughters (one of them Sadie's mother) were playing with Barbies 30 years ago, the plastic creatures were etiolated, distorted versions of femininity, but they at least looked fairly wholesome, and their clothes were princess costumes or tennis outfits, or impossible-to-put-on trousers and little shirts.

Not any more.The ones Sadie was playing with have big, tousled hair, exaggerated eye make-up and pouting mouths glossily painted hot pink.

Their clothes varied from a skimpy mini dress to a hot-pink crotch-length skirt plus plunge-neck top with silver straps, revealing most of this Barbie’s plastic “breasts”.

Sadie had them seated in a circle and was feeding them tea from little plastic cups. But they looked more like they were ready to glug down a Mojito and snort some coke before falling into a cab at 3am.

So, why is SoSensational exercised by this? Because these little plastic creatures are, inadvertently, fashion and lifestyle role models for millions of little girls, who play with these dolls and may believe that this overtly sexual hooker-style dressing is normal and acceptable.

We have been blaming magazines, clothing manufacturers and high street retailers for the sexualising of little girls, but these slapper Barbies surely play a role, too.

Such clothing send an insidious message that girls have to dress this way to fit in with their peers and to be “fashionable”. Barbie (and that means you, Mattel), you have been named and shamed. You need to get your fashion act together. Get rid of the glossed pouting mouth, the overmade-up eyes and big hair, lose the plunging necklines and the crotch-length skirts. Demonstrate that girls don’t have to look like slappers to be “one of the girls”.

Does it matter how dolls are dressed? Do tell us what you think.

 

How to wear a scuba frock if you're a grown-up

dresses with sleeves, posh frocksPreen's stunning daisy-print, mid-length scuba frock is the definitive statement frock for the new season. But how do you wear it if you don't work out as often as Madonna (and you are at least as old as her)...

Lovely grown-up ladies, if you had asked me before I tried on this little Preen dress whether "scuba" could work for me (size 12, not notably gym-trim), it would have been an LOL moment.

But with a pair of Spanx - or any shapewear of your choice - underneath, this suddenly becomes a superb option for parties, the cocktail hour and dining out (though probably only if the dinner is sushi).

And unlike a plain pastel, that pretty, clever, totally on-trend print, inspired by antique crockery, means the frock is as good as an LBD in terms of hiding the odd bump.

With three-quarter sleeves and mid-calf hemline, it just needs a pair of block colour platform courts, a chunky cuff and a clutch bag, and you are good to go.

Made from 89% nylon and 11% elastane, this Preen dress from my-wardrobe.com does a reasonable corsetry job on its own (which a low-cost scuba dress - of which you can depend, there will be many) almost certainly wouldn't.

Verdict: at £311 for a scuba frock by the infinitely talented Preen duo, versatile enough for lots of occasions, and even wearable in a British summer, this is fabulous value.

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